Tuesday, September 27, 2011

Life - Not a Bored Game

"I don't wanna close my eyes, I don't wanna fall asleep ... and I don't wanna miss a thing" (A)

Rosh Hashana is here -
are you ready to wake up?
There's a popular phrase out there - "Live life with no regrets." The message that is being related is that we should live out our dreams and act upon each and every impulse without thought.
Without reflection.
Without regret.
When we feel bored, we should go out and enjoy life, regardless of the consequences. After all, we're told, life's a game. Live for the thrill. Just do it.
Sadly, this is not the Jewish way. It isn't even a moral or responsible way of life. It is both dangerous for us, as well as destructive for all others around us. However, regardless of the immediate results of such a lifestyle, ultimately, such behavior will generate far reaching and painful outcomes down the line.

For anyone who has undergone surgery, you surely remember the fear and sense of anxiety that led up to it. When you came to the hospital for pre-op, the surgeon discussed the procedure, the possible dangers, the hopeful results and side affects. Nervous and scared, you were brought into the OR, and the staff prepared you for the surgery. The anesthesiologist walked in and introduced himself, and explained what he would do, and how the injection would put you into a deep sleep so that you would be at ease and wouldn't feel the pain.
A few short moments later, so it seemed, you woke up. You were no longer in the OR, rather in the recovery room. The surgeon was gone. The anesthesiologist was gone. Everyone was gone.
"Where am I?" you thought to yourself.
You then remembered that you underwent surgery - but you couldn't remember a thing. Everything that happened while you were "under" - not a single memory of it. One thing is for certain - the surgery was over. Yet, a while later, a heavy, shooting pain settled in. Engulfed in utter agony, you summoned the nurse.
"What is going on?" you cried. "I thought I had anesthesia so I woulnd't feel the pain?"
"True," the nurse patiently respondsed, "but that was for during the surgery. You are now experiencing pain because the anesthesia wore off. Since you are now awake, you will undoubtedly feel pain."

Let us not be fooled. If we choose to put ourselves to sleep and ignore the true meaning and purpose of life, we can enjoy all we want. While asleep, we will feel no pain. However, eventually, we are bound to wake up. And when we do, reality will settle in. The thrill will be gone. The fun we once experienced won't even be a lasting memory.
Done. Gone. Over.
The only thing that will remain will be the pain.
But we can avoid the pain. We can avoid the entire surgery if we choose. But we will need to remain healthy. To keep our souls healthy. And if we do, we won't have to sleep. We won't want to sleep. We will want to live life the way it was designed to be lived.
With meaning.
With purpose.
With true happiness.
With two days before Rosh Hashanah, let the sound of the shofar awaken those of us who are still sleeping. Let us awaken to a new year.
A new life.
A life of living, not sleeping.
A life, not a game.

Say to yourself ten times today:
"Hashem, help me wake up - and stay up! I don't want to sleep through life anymore!"

Sunday, September 4, 2011

Yearly Cleaning

"It's clean up time, it's clean up time. Let's make our SOULS shine!" 

Are you ready for your appointment?
Don't wait for decay - clean right away!
We currently find ourselves in the month of Elul. In just a few short weeks, we will be standing in shul pleading for a healthy and positive year as we sway back and forth with heartfelt devotion. The question that many ask is, "I already bought my seats. What do I need to prepare for? I'll get my machzor ready, dress in my holiday finest, and go to shul. What else is there to do?"
So, what is this month of Elul all about anyway?

I recently visited the dentist for my annual, much unanticipated cleaning. As is the ancient custom, I brushed my teeth better and longer that morning. Feeling confident and proud, I walked into the doctor's office and confirmed that I have taken good care of my teeth. "Yes, doc," I calmly answered, "I brush twice daily. I take good care of my teeth."
It didn't take long before the dentist began sighing while slowly and deliberately moving his head from side to side discouragingly. 
"You know, Rabbi," he said patiently, "you have some plaque build up on your back teeth. You really ought to clean better."
"Really?" I said surprisingly. "I brush religiously!" 
"Are you sure?" the doctor questioned. "It isn't good enough to brush well once or twice a week. Certainly not just once before coming here. If you let time pass with plaque sitting on your teeth, it causes decay, which may force me to drill or even worse."
After I assured the doctor that I would do a more diligent job of cleaning my teeth, I made the appointment for the same time next year. 

Our greatest Sages advise us to conduct a daily accounting of our deeds. We are instructed to mull through our daily actions each night so that we can adequately repent for our wrongdoings and accept upon ourselves change for the following day.
Sins cause spiritual decay. If we don't fulfill our daily quota of "self-cleaning," we are almost assured that it will cause tremendous harm in the long run. When we arrive at the Doctor for our annual "cleaning," our single day's worth of last-minute preparation will surely not help. The build up will be self evident, and, for our personal long-term well-being, He may have to cleanse us through an intense process.
During this month of Elul, it is in our best interest to prepare a bit better than to simply remove the machzor from the shelf and dry clean our most handsome suit. Let us make it our greatest responsibility to get cleaning ... and quickly! That appointment is fast approaching!

(A good friend of mine, a dentist, tells me that in truth, a person needs a cleaning twice a year. I guess that's why we also clean for Pesach!)

Say to yourself ten times today:
"Doctor, please help me treat my soul better so that it is cleaner for my next appointment, iy"H!"