To Kindle a Fire

"You're the meaning in my life - You're the inspiration. You bring feeling to my life - You're the inspiration." (C)

Are we spreading the fire within?

Each day brings with it another fascinating advancement. Never before have we been able to do so much, so fast, so effortlessly. Never before have we been able to move so little, work so little, think so little, yet seemingly accomplish so much. However, when we turn our attention to activities that require effort, patience, time and concentration, we may too often find ourselves unable to achieve. In the world of education, the profound movement of evolving methodologies continue to marvel the masses. With the growing popularity of blended learning, project-based learning and flipped classroom models, all of which have immense strengths and significantly positive benefits, we are witnessing a decline in an essential area that is most precious and priceless to Jews.

With the opening bell came the all-familiar sight of students uncovering their iPads and initiating the necessary app to begin the lesson. Since embracing the digital content company the previous Fall, the teacher sat at her desk and watched her students actively engaged in learning, manipulating, reviewing and progressing through the information and mathematical content. On several occasions, she walked around the room to ensure that everyone was on task, though she could have done the same by gazing at the dashboard on her iPad. 

Tap, tap, drag. Drag, drag, tap. With a few slight motions, the students accomplished what they need. The information was learned, reinforced and assessed. The data was automatically collected by the app, and the teacher will review the analytical information gathered later that day. The bell sounded for the end of the lesson, and the teacher called out, "Time for Mincha!" The subtle, yet noticeable sigh from the students was only the preemptive measure before the next 15 minute activity of hiding somewhere else in the building.

If students used their iPads with the siddur app, would that encourage Tefilah participation? Doubtful. 

If students used their iPads to create videos demonstrating the theme of the Tefilah, would that motivate greater involvement? Minimally. 

Does wearing tefillin, leading davening and leining seem to increase the momentum and true student engagement? Barely. 

Is there a connection between the changing mode of education and davening? Quite possibly.

Is there something terribly missing that requires us to kindle a fire well beyond the limitations of our technological advancements? Most absolutely. 

Are our students inspired enough? Why not?

Heel the World

"Heal the world, make it a better place - for you and for me and the entire human race." (MJ)

The Earth is not flat - what about us?

We frequently hear about the end of the world. There are countless people committed to spread "end of days" fears across the globe. In Judaism, we constantly speak about the coming of Moshiach and what will be experienced at that glorious time.

The time that immediately precedes the coming of Moshiach, the era in which we currently find ourselves, is called Ikvisa d'Mishicha, the Heel of Moshiach. According to Chazal, it will be a period of great strife as the world will be subject to terrible conflict. However, amid the anguish that this time will bring, we must understand that the entirety of Jewish history depends upon us. Every part of our illustrious past rests upon the success of our generation. As great as our distinguished Avos and Imahos were, the destiny of our Nation is dependent on our deeds and steadfast determination in our service of Hashem.

Someone I know once recounted an interesting situation he found himself in. He suffered from terrible back pains, and didn't know what to do with himself. He finally agreed to make an appointment with his doctor to see what could be done. After he explained his symptoms to the doctor, the doctor instructed, "Please take off your shoes."

"Shoes?" the fellow asked. "But doc, my back is hurting me! What does that have to do with my feet?"

"Just take off your shoes," insisted the doctor.

After he removed his shoes, the doctor exclaimed, "Exactly what I thought. You have flat feet. Since you have flat feet without a supportive pair of shoes, it is causing you to have back pain."

A new pair of shoes later, the back pain was now a matter of the past.

We support our past just as the feet support the body. The body’s health and direction follows our lead. If we achieve our goal, we will bring the world - present and past - to experience the Final Redemption with the coming of Moshiach.

Say to yourself ten times today:

"Hashem, please support me today as I try to help bring Moshiach through my good deeds!"

Every Step We Take

“Every breath you take, every move you make, every bond you break, every step you take - I'll be watching you.” (TP)

Are we on track?

There are many titles credited to our generation. The information age. The technology age. The age of convenience. Perhaps, the reason why we have earned so many titles is due to the fact that we live in such a busy age. In a world so absorbed in multi-tasking, we must pause for a moment to acknowledge that there are so many powerful and meaningful lessons to be learned from this generation, and in particular to our fascination and dependency on technology.

I, like most right-handed people, wear my watch on my left wrist. Yet, we would not want to make the right wrist jealous. In our age of technology, we have solved this dilemma with the creation of something called a personal activity tracker. With a little rubber, plastic and a few flashing lights, these trackers are worn day and night, even more than the watch on the other wrist. While wearing these trackers, every step we take and each move we make is recorded. With its corresponding app on our smartphones, we can monitor our steps, calories burned, stairs climbed and even use it to personalize a diet and workout program. Most trackers will now even tell us how well we slept. By wearing such trackers, we would reportedly be motivated and stimulated to become and remain more active throughout the day.

Every step that we take is recorded. While we may utilize the technology in a personal activity tracker to benefit our physical well-being (which I have for two years now), we must be cognizant of the fact that every action we take and word we speak is being monitored beyond our physical terms. Just as a pair of tzitzis serves as a visual reminder of the 613 mitzvos to the wearer, a Fitbit, Fuelband, Jawbone and Smartband can similarly represent a significant reminder for us that our actions are meaningful and measurable, and we will ultimately be responsible for each and every one. Not only can an activity tracker inspire greater physical health, but it could compel and invigorate our spiritual performance and level of fulfillment, as well.

Say to yourself ten times today:

"Hashem, please give me the strength and ability to make every step I take today a good one!"

Penny for Your Thoughts - It's All Inside

"I had a feeling I could be someone, be someone, be someone" (TC)

Unlock your potential -
think outside the 20% box.

Therapists and counselors will unanimously tell you (that's a scientific statement, by the way) that one of the most destructive mindsets that causes incalculable damage from unhappiness and oftentimes depression is the lack of confidence and low self-esteem. Chances are that if a person does not feel or think that he can succeed, he won't. However, if we were to truly understand the vast, G-D given potential we have all been provided, we would surely believe more in ourselves and the achievements that are within our reach.

Scientists have determined (a real scientific statement) that humans only use approximately 20% of our brain capacity. This leaves us with two questions: how do we access the remaining 80% and if we can only use the 20%, why create the other 80% to begin with?
Perhaps, the intention was not to utilize the remaining 80% at all, rather to serve an entirely different purpose - a message. Our 20% functioning was designed for us to internalize the lesson of how much more potential we truly possess. 

It is an undisputed fact that we are created with limitations, and our brains' capabilities is a clear case in point. Yet, this should not deter us in our efforts to achieve in life. Quite the opposite. It should remind us that regardless of the limitations, the overwhelming potential that remains dormant is far greater. And although we may not be able to tap into that wealth of potential, the message is that we always have more to offer. More strength and more ability.
Potential is all around us. In nature. In life. In us.

Say to yourself ten times today:
"Hashem, please give me the courage to see the talent You graciously gave me - and use it wisely!"

iPhone Home

"It's my life, it's now or never, 'cause I ain't gonna live forever - I just wanna live while I'm alive" (JBJ)

Stay connected -
there's always an app for that.

Wherever we turn in this glorious world, we see infinite wisdom. We see creativity and beauty. We see people empowered to build, develop, mold and cure. Mankind has been endowed with the incomparable gift of intelligence, which has bestowed upon the world the most magnificent and priceless tools imaginable. With  already an almost limitless array of professions and skills that serve all of the world's inhabitants in so many countless ways, we can only anticipate greater growth and advancement in the years to come. How fortunate we are to be living in such a marvelous and brilliant age. How proud we should be of our achievements.
And how high are the stakes - how high are the expectations.

There are many titles given to our generation. Perhaps, one of the more frequently used terms is the Smartphone Age (I might have made that up, though it sure fits the bill). If you don't own a smartphone, you may get that awkward feeling that you are far behind the times when everyone is looking to the palm of their hands, poking a screen, while you must flip open your phone to see anything.
The smartphones boast 100,000's of apps for any purpose at all. As we're told, for whatever the need, "there's an app for that." There are apps for productivity, business, finance, education, lifestyle, news, navigation and many more. With these apps, we can rule the world - pretty much. We can organize our lives, communicate with friends and business associates across the globe, and make reservations for dinner. In short, we can accomplish almost any task with a smartphone. This, however, comes with a price. These smartphones aren't cheap. Be prepared to spend a small fortune for all this power.
Let's imagine for a moment, that you are not using your smartphone for any of these tools. Your personal finances are not organized, you are soon to be fired for the lousy communication you maintain with your clients, and your social life is an ugly mess. But do you have the most insane collection of games on your iPhone! You're a "killer" in Angry Bird, a four-star slugger in Homerun Battle (I am, actually), and you've shot more zombies than anyone on the silver screen. 
What a waste of a smartphone!


Hashem has truly given us uncanny capabilities. Each talent is another app waiting to be utilized. These abilities were given to us to make the best of life - to fulfill a lofty mission that requires high productivity, positive communication and a sensible lifestyle. Yet, how tragic would it be if we were to squander these abilities, only to replace our "home screen" with games and entertainment alone? Is that all our "smartphones" are designed for? 
Certainly not. 
We can surely enjoy life - we must. G-D gave us this exceptional world to appreciate it. And while we eat His delicious food, we must make a beracha. When we witness His great marvels, we must thank Him. And while we sit back on a much needed vacation, we should look at the exquisite sun as it sets with a sense of gratitude. Look into the crisp, clear water and say, "Hashem - man did You do a good job!"
Let us always remember that we are all "smartphones" - an ingenious work of art with G-D given potential. Let us, therefore, use our gifts - each and every app - appropriately. 


Say to yourself ten times today:
"Hashem, thank You for everything You've given me in life - I hope to use it all well!"

Couldn't Hurt a Fly

"Let your spirit fly, where we are one … I want to get away, I want to fly away" (LK)

Torah Airlines - the only way to fly.

Life's tricky. With choices to be made at every turn, our very lives hang in the balance beyond our comprehension. Our futures depend upon our every move. And, although we enjoy relaxing and spending "free" time with virtually no movement and effort, we know full well that we cannot become wastefully absorbed in frivolous behaviors and inconsequential pursuits of satisfaction all our lives. We all have a sense and need for accomplishment. We naturally seek achievement and fulfillment.
And sitting on a couch doesn't really seem to be the most appropriate or best suited place to succeed in this goal.

One of the most entertaining and humorous sights one may ever witness is when someone tries to kill a fly. As the small, winged insect stealthily flies from one end of the room to the next, avoiding its pursuant, it seemingly never runs out of steam. In its desperate attempt to both avoid being squashed and find its way to freedom, it doesn't let up. It doesn't rest. It's constantly on the move. And if it does pause momentarily, the instant it senses someone on the attack, it immediately takes flight again. 
Earlier today, I tried my hand at catching a fly that found its way into the kitchen. It isn't easy! At the fast pace that little guy flew, I could hardly follow it! After a short while (alright, quite a while), I simply gave up! As long as that creepy crawly was on the move, I couldn't hurt a fly!

There are many obstacles on the road of life that have the potential of stopping us dead in our tracks. Indeed, the yetzer hara has a wide array of weapons at his disposal. At every and any moment in time, he may be a step away, lurking in the shadows, ready to pounce upon us when we least expect it.
We cannot be idle. We cannot be immobile. To do so would deem us ever so vulnerable. To avoid his attack and to secure our safety, we must always be on the move - the move forward. Just as a soldier in war, we must be at attention.
We must always be ready to fly. We must be swift and protect ourselves so that the yetzer hara couldn't hurt a fly!

Say to yourself ten times today:
"Hashem, please help keep me safe from harm - and keep me closer to You!" 

Rubber-necking vs. Stiff-necking

"What you thought was real in life somehow steered you wrong, now you just keep drivin' tryin' to find out where you belong" (3DD)

Don't be Rubber-made.
Focus on the road of life!

They say that we're a stiff-necked People. Well, the Torah actually testifies to this reality. Although this usually connotes the fact that we are stubborn (which is certainly extremely accurate), albeit in a somewhat negative tone, there may be a valuable lesson that can be learned from this "stereotype," one that is far more positive and admirable.


For those drivers out there that have ever sat in traffic - we're talking about real bad congestion - knows the frustration of finally pulling up to the "scene" that has caused the delay, only to realize that the commotion was on the other side of the highway. 
"Why can't everyone just move!" we say out loud as if someone can hear us (or that it will actually make a difference). 
While we slowly drive by, we turn to take a quick look over our shoulder, just like everyone else. After we let out a deep grunt, gazing at the time as we move forward, we're pleasantly surprised that miraculously, the traffic begins flowing freely once more. Although we sat in nearly motionless traffic for what seemed to be an eternity, we all understand why - rubbernecking, a term so very descriptive of the behavior.
If only everyone wouldn't look, right? If only everyone would focus on the road. If only everyone would concentrate, we would not have to sit in unnecessary traffic, delaying our arrival at our destination.


If only we weren't so interested in every aspect of our surroundings - so distracted. Wouldn't we move faster? Wouldn't we be more efficient - with our actions and our time? 
But remember - we're a stiff-necked Nation. We were created with the inborn ability to remain focused and attentive on our tasks and responsibilities, both on a personal and national level. We must learn to harness this strength and master this skill in every facet of our lives so that we never lose sight of our objectives. 
Life is one long rubber match! But to truly Livestrong, our lives cannot be made of rubber!


Say to yourself ten times today:
"Hashem, please give me the strength to remain focused today - on You!"

YouTube - A Real Life Saver!

"Safety, aha aha, safety - safety is the Torah way" (Uncle Moishy?)

Are you glued to your tube?

Rules are meant to be broken. Or are they?
Perhaps one of the many characteristics that personify childhood is the attraction of breaking rules. Children question why they even exist, and often carefully tread upon the threshold of transgressing one or even several of them. And, to add an additional level of restriction, we have the Torah and Rabbinic laws that further confine us to a set and strict plethora of extensive regulations.
How can we explain the value of these laws in simple terms? How do we transmit to children the importance of remaining steadfast to the Torah by adhering to all of its requirements, and moreover, how the Torah itself provides us with the personal protection and comforting state-of-mind to not only survive in this world, but to become successful and happy members of society and the Jewish People?

While discussing an upcoming trip with my children, one that will include swimming, my 7 year old daughter questioned, "Do I have to go into the pool with a tube like last year? Why can't I just swim without it? It will be so much more fun!" 
"Of course you do," I replied. "You don't know how to swim yet! If you don't go in with the tube, you will be in danger, chas v'sholom!" 
Although I assured her that I wanted her to enjoy herself, I tried to lovingly explain that it wouldn't be much fun without the tube! The tube would save her from certain harm, thereby allowing her to utilize her time in the pool for the best fun possible - for her. 


But don't adults swim without tubes?
Just as children are dependent upon their parents and other means of support, so are Jews dependent upon Hashem. Conversely, non-Jews swim without "tubes" - without Torah requirements to "restrain" their actions and behaviors - seemingly without harm, since their survival is not dependent on their fulfillment of mitzvos. We, on the other hand, are bound by different rules. Different standards. Since we rely entirely on a Higher Being, our existence and preservation is therefore contingent upon His rules. For our safety and benefit, Hashem has given us a tube - a Torah to envelop us with fortitude and protection. Ultimately, we can have the most meaningful and lasting experience in this world due to the very thing that people often unfortunately view as a hindrance. Thus, the Torah does not hinder our lives - it enhances it!

Say to yourself ten times today:
"Hashem, thank You for the Torah - I appreciate all it means to me!"

Babies 'R Us

“She's got a smile it seems to me reminds me of childhood memories … I hate to look into those eyes and see an ounce of pain … Oh, oh, oh, sweet child o' mine, oh, oh, oh, oh, sweet love of mine” (GnR)

He's helping us from Above -   
to take that step closer towards Him.

Students ask good questions. Sometimes, even great questions. One common, insightful question initiated by students (albeit in simpler words) is, "If there were so many saintly rabbis in previous generations, yet were not successful in bringing about Moshiach, then why are we so confident that we can accomplish this feat? If they could not bring our Final Redemption, how can we?" A great question, indeed.

Children are precious, especially our own. When that magical moment arrives and a new child enters the world, we are filled with an indescribable sensation of joy, gratitude and pride. Naturally, our every waking (and often sleepless) moment is spent on gazing at our beloved child and attending to his or her needs. In the initial days and weeks after birth, the child requires the most intense and consistent attention, which dissipates over time. As the child grows, they advance in stages from complete dependence to greater independence. Concurrently, the child becomes more able and skilled to take care of himself. From crawling to walking, mindlessly mumbling to speaking, the child develops into a more functioning person.
Every parent can remember their child's first word. Their first intentional movement, such as a smile or kiss. The camera's flash doesn't cease when a child waves for the first time. However, why is this wave any more meaningful than the wave their 20 year old offered when he went off for the summer? Why is that motion of love, that smile, of an infant so much more memorable that one of an adolescent child? Is it because the wave or smile was a milestone for the infant and not the grown child?
Perhaps, the reason for the excitement is because the infant, so incredibly limited and fragile, just demonstrated monumental step of growth - demonstrated an independent action of connection. For a 20 year old to wave is not much of an accomplishment. A 20 year old is expected to be able to wave. To smile. However, a parent's expectations of their infant or toddler is far lower. Therefore, when such a child does in fact smile or wave, they have a accomplished something so much great than their older sibling doing the same action. This, in turn, offers the parent the greatest, most intense joy and pleasure.

We are that infant. Although our more advanced older siblings of yesteryear far surpassed us in terms of saintliness and personal greatness, we stand to offer our Father infinitesimally greater joy and pleasure. As we know, the heartfelt prayer of a child can possess greater power and effect than that of a notable sage. Thus, our tefillos - the tefillos of a generation of "youngsters" - have the capacity for greater results. Our every mitzvah and word of Torah study earns our Father immeasurable satisfaction. He derives far more delight in a single, noble and dedicated deed of the simple Jew today than perhaps many more such deeds of those who came before us.
He is watching us - always. Just as a parent who remains constantly and lovingly fixated on their toddler as they address every single need that arises, Hashem similarly observes our every move - our every thought - with compassion and infinite adoration.
He awaits our smile.
Our wave.
Our first word of "Shema Yisroel."
And when we're all ready to reach out and muster the courage to boldly take that monumental step towards Him, He will be there with a proud, fatherly smile and open arms - to grasp us and bring us closer to Him.
To receive His children in everlasting happiness and bliss.

Say to yourself ten times today:
"Hashem, please give me the strength and courage to take one step closer to You today!"

Bring Home the Runners

"You better stand tall when they're calling you out, don't bend, don't break, baby, don't back down - It's my life, it's now or never" (BJ)

You're up ... up to you! Be a game winner!

People often talk about the End of Days. As Jews, we are trained from a young age to anticipate the coming of Moshiach, as well as frequently discuss what will happen when he finally arrives. Naturally, we are intrigued by the topic. We cannot wait until the day when there will be global peace, unity and universal glorification of Hashem's singular sovereignty upon the world. However, one thing is for certain - we must deserve it!
This requires a collective effort. As we diligently strive to fulfill our Torah obligations, we must always keep in mind that our personal observance and accomplishments alone will not earn our Final Redemption, rather we must assist others to achieve the same objective.
It's a team effort. And a lot rides on each player.

It's the 9th inning. Two down. Bases loaded. Down by four. And we're at the bottom of the order.
But before the game ends, let's take a quick look at the key moments that led up to this crucial batter. We've left several runners stranded. Although we scored several times, we also had many other failed opportunities. One of your star teammates sacrificed earlier to deep right, moving up the base runners and scoring one. But our defense made some critical mistakes. Though we had some big hits, those errors cost us dearly.
But forget about those now. That's in the past. The game is on the line ... and you're up!
We cannot afford another sacrifice. You need to get on! And you need to come home safely!
 Focus. Concentrate. 
Put in all your power and knock that ball right out of the park! The game is in your hands!

Go on. Bring home those runners! 

Say to yourself ten times today:
"Hashem, give me the will-power and strength to be a star player on Your team!"

Let It Settl-Lin a While

"It's gonna take time, a whole lot of precious time, it's gonna take patience and time ... to do it right child" (GH)

Do you want to be an overnight
sensation or truly great?

A good steak takes time to grill. A fine wine takes time to age. A baseball glove takes time to break in.
True greatness takes time. A whole lot of time.
People of often quick to buy into the new fad. The new style. Everything is quick to become "the best ever" overnight. Yet, as we have seen through the ages, true greatness is almost never just born. Lasting greatness takes time and perseverance.

We witness one spectacular phenomenon all the time. Whether with super-power nations on a big scale or one-hit-wonders on a small scale. Throughout recent history, the world of sports, entertainment and music have certainly produced some beloved icons that have demonstrated a rise to stardom and glory, however long their fame lasted. From enduring stars such as Michael Jordan, Joe Montana and Clint Eastwood to Bill Cosby, Babe Ruth and Mordechai Ben David (?!), there have been a comparatively select few who retained their celebrity status over time compared to the thousands more who quickly faded from the public eye.
What will be with the new talent? The new phenomenons? The Tim Tebows and Jeremy Lins? 
Only a fool will immediately pronounce the long-term talent, but only an ignorant historian will doubt the possible potential. 
Time will tell. 


After 3,000 years, time has certainly proved the lasting capacity of two entities that have endured countless obstacles, infinite tribulations and boundless opposition - the Torah and the Jewish People. The mighty Greeks are no longer. The pompous Romans have long fallen. What was once perceived as timeless was proven mortal once and again.
As the years pass and the generations ensue, we continue to remain the true beacon of greatness.
And great we will always be.

Say to yourself ten times today:
"Hashem, please help me to be great today - truly great!" 

What a Brees!

"We're leaving together ... It's the final countdown" (E)

We're down to the wire. Are you
ready to set a new world record?

We live in a world of opportunity. In a world of means. With so many powerful tools and endless resources at our fingertips, we are at the peak of civilization.
Right?
Electricity was just the beginning. We have phones - cell phones, high speed Internet, 1080p LCD HDTV plasma mumbo jumbo screens, and the list goes on and on. We feel pretty smart, hey?
Turning from the physical world of technological advancements and moving to the religious world, the picture may shift a bit. Or a bunch.
Contrasting ourselves to the greats of the recent century, like the saintly Chofetz Chaim, and certainly to those long ago, such as the Avos and Imahos, we pale in comparison. Their lives were dedicated to the service of Hashem. Their accomplishments far surpass anything we can possibly achieve. With all of the wisdom we seem to have demonstrated in developing state-of-the-art, cutting edge technology, we cannot even come close to the perfection and sacrifice of Avrohom Avinu by Akeidas Yitzchok, the unbreakable commitment of Yosef ha'Tzaddik in Mitzrayim, or the complete faith of Moshe Rabbeinu through the years in the Midbar.
Or can we?

For all the football fans around the country, 2011 proved to be a milestone year to remember. After 27 years of legendary quarterback Dan Marino's single season passing record of 5,084 yards sitting safely within the sacred record books, Drew Brees of the New Orleans Saints finally broke it this season (after nearly breaking it back in 2008). Together, they remain the only two quarterbacks to ever toss more than 5,000 yards in a single season. At first glance, Drew Brees would certainly measure up, if nor surpass, the great Dan Marino. If he broke his record, surely he is a better player. However, the critics question this achievement. Many have correctly pointed out a glaring red (yellow?) flag in this comparison. Over the years, the rules of the NFL have changed. Due to the league's concern for the safety of its players, especially the heralded and high-paid quarterbacks, they created greater precautions and limitations for the defense. The quarterback and wide receivers now enjoy more protection than ever before, in and out of the pocket, which enables bigger plays. More yards. Some would say, therefore, that although Drew Brees broke the record, Dan Marino remains a far better player.
However, regardless of this point, one fact prevails - the record has been broken ... and Drew Brees now holds that record.

We may not be greater than those before us - they were certainly leagues ahead of us. And although their achievements were borne out of hard work, sacrifice and self-perfection, we, with greater ease and far less sacrifice can accomplish the same - and perhaps even more. We can snatch the record by bringing the ge'ula shileima, with the coming of Moshiach - something nobody before us has accomplished!

Say to yourself ten times today:
"Hashem, please give me the strength to be great today - truly great!"

We Have the Key

"So often times it happens that we live our lives in chains, and we never even know we have the key" (E)

Remember - the key is in our hand. Use it!

Everyone has moments and situations in their lives when they feel incapable of overcoming a terrible predicament or difficult challenge. Feeling powerless and unprepared, we often give up and give into the pressures we face. If only, we feel, something extraordinary were to occur to save us, we are doomed. Without a solution or option, we lose hope. However, how many times did we realize only after the event that the answer to our issue was right before our eyes all along, yet, due to our attitude, we failed to recognize it?

The other night, I was having some problems with my wife's disc player in her minivan and attempted to fix it. With several screwdrivers and various other tools in hand, I made way into the car and prepared for what I thought would be a quick job. I rolled up my sleeves, turned on the dome lights and got ready to work. 
After I took apart the dashboard and disconnected the ventilation system and dash electronics, I removed the disc changer. Once I unscrewed what seemed to be dozens of screws, I saw the issue - the CD's were jammed. Tugging, pulling and jabbing at the discs proved to be unsuccessful, and it dawned upon me that I would have to bring it to a more knowledgeable "professional" than me. All of the connections and parts were reinstalled, I turned off the lights and manually locked the door from the inside.
In the morning, I was met with a surprise - the minivan wouldn't start. It only took a few seconds before I realized what happened ... I had drained the battery by keeping the interior lights on for so long the previous night. I immediately called Chaverim (a Jewish volunteer group that are exactly what they're called - friends) to lend me a hand. When they arrived, I took out my fob to click the car open - but even that didn't work. The battery was completely dead!
"Now how am I going to get into the car?" I exclaimed in despair.
The Chaverim member smiled back at me and patiently answered, "Why don't you just use the actual key to unlock the door manually?"
I am quite the professional.

Instead of giving up, perhaps the solution is right there before us! In our very own hands!

Say to yourself ten times today:
"Hashem, please help me find the key to any issue that arises!"

That's the Goal

"Life has a funny way of sneaking up on you. Life has a funny, funny way of helping you out" (AM)

Are you ready to score?

Life is challenging  - by design. Each moment in our lives, we make decisions that have the capacity of altering and redirecting our future in unfathomable ways. Every word that is spoken, every gesture that is made, every action that is executed and even every thought that passes through the mind is a distinct decision - a decision that we either consciously or subconsciously make. Life wouldn't be the same without them. They enhance our lives, making us stronger, better and more experienced in this journey. The greater the decision, the greater the challenge. The greater the challenge, the greater the gain if we succeed. The greater we become. Without such challenges, we gain nothing.

One of the most influential and well-respected Torah leaders of the past generation in Eretz Yisroel was Rav Sholom Schwadron, tz"l, known as the beloved and famed "Maggid of Yerushalayim." His powerful and heartfelt talks remain etched in the minds and thoughts of the countless people that drank thirstily from his words. On one occasion, he was speaking with a teenager, and the conversation moved to the topic of soccer and the youngster's intense obsession with it.
"I don't understand how the game works," Rav Sholom innocently remarked.
The teen briefly explained the basic objective and rules of soccer, to which Rav Sholom simply responded, "If the goalie is blocking the net, why don't the players just come at night when he's gone and kick the ball in then!"
Though a bit frustrated, the fellow patiently and respectfully answered, "Because then it wouldn't be counted as a goal - the game would be over! The point is to get it in the net when it's being guarded! Otherwise, what would be the point?"

Exactly the point! We only score when there's a challenge! When the "game" is over, it's over!

Say to yourself ten times today:
"Hashem, please give me the strength to overcome today's challenges!"

Die Hard Fan

"I've dropped out, I've burned up, I've fought my way back from the dead ... I'll be better when I'm older, I'll be the greatest fan of Your life" (EM)

What kinda fan are you?

Recently, a Holocaust survivor visited our school, and addressed the students in what was a very memorable event. With vivid detail and deep emotion, this well-respected gentleman recounted his experiences of that terrible and painful epoch in Jewish history. He described how he witnessed the local shuls being torched by the henious Nazis, the injustices that prevailed as the norm, and the miraculous process his family merited as they were led to safety from the camps of death.

When he concluded his heart-wrenching account, he welcomed questions from the students. Perhaps one of the most insightful questions came towards the very end, as a boy reflected, "How did you find the courage to rebuild a religious family after witnessing such horrors?"
After a short pause, shrug of the shoulders, and slightly perplexed expression, the man responded simply, "Because I was a Jew! I was born a Jew, I lived my life as a Jew, and I will always be a Jew!"

There are several tiers of fans in the world of sports. First, there are the casual followers who watch a game every now and then when the chance arises. Then there are those who classify themselves as fans of specific teams and keep up to date with scores and schedules. However, the top of the line fans are what we call "die hard fans." They pledge allegiance to their team, religiously watch each and every game with total concentration and excitement, memorize statistics, monitor trades, and own every form of memorabilia and team merchandise. They may even have season tickets - box seats, of course.
What happens when these die hard fans' team loses? Do they jump ship? Do they simply choose another team to follow? After all their effort, time and monetary investments, are they willing to give it all up so fast? NEVER! Not a die hard fan! They're in it until the bitter end! Win or lose. They're team is the best - and nobody will ever convince them otherwise!

We lost six million of our brothers and sisters - our fellow fans. They were born as fans, lived as fans, and died as fans. And they didn't just die quietly.
They were die hard fans.
And the best fans die hard.

Say to yourself ten times today:
"Hashem, please give me the strength and courage to always be Your fan and follow only You!"

Your Daily Dose of Pro-Teen

"If I listened long enough to you, I'd find a way to believe that it's all true ... still I look to find a reason to believe" (RS)

Want to feel better?
Add some Pro-Teen to your diet!

Our health is important - both our physical and spiritual health. We need both to survive. Just as we need to remain healthy by feeding our bodies what it needs to function well, similarly, our souls need nourishment. We accomplish this by davening, learning Torah and doing mitzvos. Our souls depend upon these nutrients. And, just as if the body is deficient in certain vital nutrients, it can begin the deteriorate and cause us harm, so too, the soul. If we do not "feed" it "religiously," it will most certainly begin to decay and cause us immeasurable, long-lasting sorrow.
The teenage years can be turbulent times. At this age, children are at a period in their lives where they are making decisions and choosing their direction in life. Every step of the way, they choose their actions, those that will ultimately pave the way for their future. For them to succeed, we need to instill the seeds of success well before they arrive at this pivotal junction in time.

Vitamins are part of daily life. From a very young age, children consume various vitamins to retain their health and well-being. Many parents are fixated on making certain that every possible vitamin category is addressed properly. Systematically, they have their children take an array of vitamins as part of their morning routine. However, even those parents who do not pump vitamins into their children, there are times that they are triggered to begin, such as after a doctor's appointment. If results from a blood test show a deficiency in a certain area, surely the parents will become more vigilant in providing the necessary vitamins their child requires rather than allowing the problem to persist. 

If a teenager demonstrates a deficiency in his religious health, it is our duty to provide the much-needed "vitamins" to bring him back to healthy levels. This must be done with care and love since after all, we are dearly concerned about him. It goes without saying that we wouldn't want to cause further decline and jeopardize his future by pushing him to neglect the vitamins. Negativity, coercion, criticizing and reprimanding are all catalysts of greater distance and far worse health. It is, therefore, our responsibility to be positive and loving so that they will want to become healthier.
We must be supportive.
Accepting.
After all, the vitamins have to taste good and not leave a repugnant taste in their mouths! If we want them to take what they need, shouldn't we have a bit more pro-teen in our diets?

Say to yourself ten times today:
"Hashem, please help me be a healthier Jew!"

Get In the Game!

"Reaching out for something you've got to feel while clutching to what you had thought was real … the struggle within" (M)

Don't be stuck on the sidelines -
get into the game!

People often wonder why the happy and celebratory days of Sukkos follow Rosh ha'Shana and Yom Kippur - the Days of Awe. After all, why do we sit in a Sukkah just days after we begged for our lives? What is the connection between the two?
On a different, yet related note, once we finish the busiest time of the Jewish year, we may question what we can take with us from the "holiday season." How can we keep the spirit of these days alive throughout the rest of the year?

Everyone wants to be someone great. Nobody wants to be just average. Each of us have role models to whom we aspire, and through our lives we attempt to achieve the goals with which we may become more like those role models.
A few days ago, I was in a restaurant and recognized that half of the people were wearing the same green outfits - Jets jerseys. Being Sunday, a day many dedicate to football, several people had returned from the game and came out to eat to celebrate their win. Why do they wear the jerseys, though? If they aren't the players, then why wear their clothing?
The answer is that when they watch the game and root for their team, they feel connected to them. They feel part of the team. When their team wins, they celebrate - just like the players. When their team loses, they sulk - just like the players. So, during the game, the fans pretend like they're players. Yet, when the game is over, the jerseys come off and they return to normal life. They are no longer "players," rather regular people.
But what about the players themselves? The role models? The people who everyone looks to? They, too, take off their jerseys - but they are still the same people! They are still players!

As we stood in shul on Rosh ha'Shana and Yom Kippur, we promised Hashem to be better. We promised to become the people we know we're supposed to be. The people we know we can be. But this is no easy task. How can we immediately transform ourselves to become truly great overnight? The moment we walk out of shul, we are hardly different people. How can we take the feeling of sanctity of Rosh ha'Shana and Yom Kippur - the feeling of wanting to be great - with us throughout the year?
In comes Sukkos. The moment we leave shul we are told to start building a Sukkah. We are taught that we are to leave our Diras Keva, our permanent home (our houses) and move into the Diras Arai, our temporary home (the Sukkah) - and it, the Sukkah, should become our Diras Keva during this time.
This is our answer. Hashem is telling us to leave our permanent place - the person we have grown into - and move into our temporary place - the person we become only on occasion. Everyone experiences times when we feel tremendously elevated and inspired. There are times when we fulfill mitzvos that uplift us. Carry us. Give us a sense of accomplishment. Transform us into a greater person - temporarily. However, time passes. The feeling wears off and we revert back to our regular selves.
Although we may wear the jersey of our role model, we are not the real player ... yet. After the experience is over, we take off the jersey - the temporary person - and return to our permanent self. Sukkos is about making the temporary permanent. It is the time to keep the jersey on. To become the player - the role model. To incorporate the inspiration of Rosh ha'Shana and Yom Kippur into our everyday lives. To become part of our reality. Who we truly are.
To make the temporary permanent.

Say to yourself ten times today:
"Hashem, help me be the best I can be today!"

Race to the Starting Line

“You got a fast car, but is it fast enough so you can fly away - you gotta make a decision” (TC)



The race is on - get moving!

  The year is now officially underway. We've made it this far once again. Yet, as with all new beginnings, there are certain expectations we have for ourselves, as well as promises we made to Hashem on Rosh ha'Shana and Yom Kippur that we must fulfill in the coming months. One thing is for certain - we must not sit back and relax now that the Day of Judgment is behind us. After all, we are essentially now preparing for the next Yom ha'Din.

If you have ever played the classic arcade racing game, you know the thrill and excitement of high speed driving that cannot be imitated on the roads of real life. Gripping the wheel and thrusting the pedal to the metal, you drive through a series of tight, challenging turns while avoiding "dangerous" collisions with other drivers. As you slow into turns and rebound from the frequent side-swipes, you keep your eyes on the clock as the time ticks.
But where are you going? What is the goal?
To complete the lap and make it to the starting line again before time expires.
"Am I going to make it?" you nervously think to yourself.
With a few moments to spare, you finally make your way to the "checkpoint" - the starting line - and begin a new lap. But the challenge now increases - you'll have less time to complete this new lap. If you made it this far, you surely can find a way to drive through the same course again.
Only faster. Better. Make smarter decisions. Crash less.

We all made it to the starting line and just pulled out once more, and, although we may have crashed a couple of times (bein odom l'Mokom) and brushed by others driving on the road of life (bein odom l'chaveiro) this past year , we are still alive and intact, thank G-D. We get to start the clock once again.
However, the responsibility that rests upon our shoulders is great. If we managed to make it this far, Hashem has faith that we'll do even a better job this year - in the new lap. We'll have to drive better. Safer. Bump around and crash less.
And the margin of error is slimmer since time will be tighter.
But we've been here before. We've done this lap before. Each day poses the same challenges - but we're smarter now. Stronger now. We've become better drivers.
Drive safely!

Say to yourself ten times today:
"Hashem, please help me overcome today's challenges so that I can better serve You!"

Be Connected - Always

"You should know, everywhere I go, You're always on my mind, in my heart, in my soul ... You're the meaning in my life, You're the inspiration ... Wanna have You near me ... no one needs You more than I need You" (C)

The signal is at its strongest -
are you connecting to it?

Time is ticking. It isn't just a cute cliche - it's real.
People wonder, "What is so special about this time of year? Everyone talks about doing teshuva and how now is the time to 'connect' with Hashem. What does that mean? And why now?"
We know that Hashem is closer to us during this time period, and, therefore, it makes Him more accessible to us. It means that we can earn forgiveness faster, gain a closer and more lasting bond with Him and essentially change our lives for the better.

The other evening, a neighbor of mine introduced an interesting idea to me - a plan for our neighborhood. He remarked, "Instead of everyone buying their own personal wireless router to connect to the Internet, where some will have a stronger signal than others, why can't we just buy a really powerful router and place it someone central among our condos? This way, everyone can be connected all the time!"
Perfect idea! 

The further we are away from the router, the weaker our connection. The weaker our connection, the slower we work. The slower we work, the less we get done. If we're so far away from the router to the point that we have no signal - we're not connected at all!
During the month of Elul and the Yomim Nora'im, Hashem is "closer" to us. The signal is stronger now than any other time of year. Thus, we can connect better. Work faster. Get more done. While some have a strong connection to Him throughout the year, the signal that is transmitted now is universal. Anyone can tap into it. Anywhere.
The only question is - have we turned our access feature on?

Say to yourself ten times today:
"Hashem, I want to stay connect to You - please help us keep the connection strong all year long!"

Life - Not a Bored Game

"I don't wanna close my eyes, I don't wanna fall asleep ... and I don't wanna miss a thing" (A)

Rosh Hashana is here -
are you ready to wake up?

There's a popular phrase out there - "Live life with no regrets." The message that is being related is that we should live out our dreams and act upon each and every impulse without thought.
Without reflection.
Without regret.
When we feel bored, we should go out and enjoy life, regardless of the consequences. After all, we're told, life's a game. Live for the thrill. Just do it.
Sadly, this is not the Jewish way. It isn't even a moral or responsible way of life. It is both dangerous for us, as well as destructive for all others around us. However, regardless of the immediate results of such a lifestyle, ultimately, such behavior will generate far reaching and painful outcomes down the line.

For anyone who has undergone surgery, you surely remember the fear and sense of anxiety that led up to it. When you came to the hospital for pre-op, the surgeon discussed the procedure, the possible dangers, the hopeful results and side affects. Nervous and scared, you were brought into the OR, and the staff prepared you for the surgery. The anesthesiologist walked in and introduced himself, and explained what he would do, and how the injection would put you into a deep sleep so that you would be at ease and wouldn't feel the pain.
A few short moments later, so it seemed, you woke up. You were no longer in the OR, rather in the recovery room. The surgeon was gone. The anesthesiologist was gone. Everyone was gone.
"Where am I?" you thought to yourself.
You then remembered that you underwent surgery - but you couldn't remember a thing. Everything that happened while you were "under" - not a single memory of it. One thing is for certain - the surgery was over. Yet, a while later, a heavy, shooting pain settled in. Engulfed in utter agony, you summoned the nurse.
"What is going on?" you cried. "I thought I had anesthesia so I woulnd't feel the pain?"
"True," the nurse patiently respondsed, "but that was for during the surgery. You are now experiencing pain because the anesthesia wore off. Since you are now awake, you will undoubtedly feel pain."

Let us not be fooled. If we choose to put ourselves to sleep and ignore the true meaning and purpose of life, we can enjoy all we want. While asleep, we will feel no pain. However, eventually, we are bound to wake up. And when we do, reality will settle in. The thrill will be gone. The fun we once experienced won't even be a lasting memory.
Done. Gone. Over.
The only thing that will remain will be the pain.
But we can avoid the pain. We can avoid the entire surgery if we choose. But we will need to remain healthy. To keep our souls healthy. And if we do, we won't have to sleep. We won't want to sleep. We will want to live life the way it was designed to be lived.
With meaning.
With purpose.
With true happiness.
With two days before Rosh Hashanah, let the sound of the shofar awaken those of us who are still sleeping. Let us awaken to a new year.
A new life.
A life of living, not sleeping.
A life, not a game.

Say to yourself ten times today:
"Hashem, help me wake up - and stay up! I don't want to sleep through life anymore!"